Its not as easy to just talk about something to someone as we want to. There are certain things that we want to talk about, but we can't never or would not want to talk about to others. Having those type of situations can be a real burden and takes days, weeks, months or even years to get over it. But sometimes we have to talk about it whether we like it or not. Not to bore others but to relief our selves from having to have something in us that keeps dragging us down from time to time. But there comes a time where we want to talk about it, but somehow we can't seem to find that ear that would listen to us, not to critique but to support. So what would you do if you can't find that ear? What would you do if it keeps dragging you down? I guess the answer would be, keep it to yourself. That's the best one can do until it drifts off to a place far from the centre.